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SUBJECT:   Matthew 5:38-41 Turning the other cheek

 

QUESTION:  Do these verses show that we are not to resist those attempting to kill us or rape us?

 

ANSWER:

Matthew 5:38-41

38 Ye have heard that it hath been said, An eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth:

39 But I say unto you, That ye resist not evil: but whosoever shall smite thee on thy right cheek, turn to him the other also.

40 And if any man will sue thee at the law, and take away thy coat, let him have thy cloke also.

41 And whosoever shall compel thee to go a mile, go with him twain.

 

The verses do not oppose one protecting himself from one seeking to kill him or rape them.  Notice the commentary on Matthew 5

 

Matthew 5:38-41

 

Ye have heard that it hath been said, An eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth:

[An eye for an eye ...] This command is found in Ex 21:24; Lev 24:20, and Deut 19:21. In these places it was given as a rule to regulate the decisions of judges. They were to take eye for eye, and tooth for tooth, and to inflict burning for burning. As a judicial rule it is not unjust. Christ finds no fault with the rule as applied to magistrates, and does not take upon himself to repeal it. But instead of confining it to magistrates, the Jews had extended it to private conduct, and made it the rule by which to take revenge. They considered themselves justified by this rule to inflict the same injury on others that they had received. Our Saviour remonstrates against this. He declares that the law had no reference to private revenge, that it was given only to regulate the magistrate, and that their private conduct was to be governed by different principles.

 

The general principle which he laid down was, that we are not to resist evil; that is, as it is in the Greek, nor to set ourselves against an evil person who is injuring us. But even this general direction is not to be pressed too strictly. Christ did not intend to teach that we are to see our families murdered, or be murdered ourselves; rather than to make resistance. The law of nature, and all laws, human and divine, justify self-defense when life is in danger. It cannot surely be the intention to teach that a father should sit by coolly and see his family butchered by savages, and not be allowed to defend them. Neither natural nor revealed religion ever did, or ever can, inculcate this doctrine. Our Saviour immediately explains what he means by it. Had he intended to refer it to a case where life is in danger, he would most surely have mentioned it. Such a case was far more worthy of statement than those which he did mention.A doctrine so unusual, so unlike all that the world had believed. and that the best people had acted on, deserved to be formally stated. Instead of doing this, however, he confines himself to smaller matters, to things of comparatively trivial interest, and says that in these we had better take wrong than to enter into strife and lawsuits. The first case is where we are smitten on the cheek. Rather than contend and fight, we should take it patiently, and turn the other cheek. This does not, however, prevent our remonstrating firmly yet mildly on the injustice of the thing, and insisting that justice should be done us, as is evident from the example of the Saviour himself. See John 18:23. The second evil mentioned is where a man is litigious and determined to take all the advantage the law can give him, following us with vexatious and expensive lawsuits. Our Saviour directs us, rather than to imitate him rather than to contend with a revengeful spirit in courts of justice to take a trifling injury, and yield to him. This is merely a question about property, and not about conscience and life. ~from Barnes' Notes

 

Note:  Christ did not intend to teach that we are to see our families murdered rather than to make resistance.  These verses are talking about other types of assaults such as lawsuits and unjust regulations.  It is not talking about deadly attacks by those who are seeking to murder.  One is completely justified to flee or to fight for their life. 

 

Again I am going to tell you that God protects those who He has called and this situation just does not come up.  I have never seen it though it may have come up somewhere.

 

Here is another commentary:

 

Matthew 5:39

 

But I say unto you, That ye resist not evil: but whosoever shall smite thee on thy right cheek, turn to him the other also.

 

[Resist not evil] Or, the evil person. So, I am fully persuaded, too (NT:3588) poneeroo (NT:4190) ought to be translated. Our Lord's meaning is, "Do not repel one outrage by another." He that does so makes himself precisely what the other is, a wicked person.

 

[Turn to him the other also] That is, rather than avenge thyself, be ready to suffer patiently a repetition of the same injury. But these exhortations belong to those principally who are persecuted for righteousness' sake. Let such leave the judgment of their cause to Him for whose sake they suffer. The Jews always thought that every outrage should be resented; and thus the spirit of hatred and strife was fostered. ~from Adam Clarke's Commentary

 

Note:  Again, nothing here about an admonition in face of deadly force.

 

Looking on the Internet, I found the following Biblically based statement regarding the Bible and defending yourself.

 

SELF DEFENSE, WEAPONS, AND THE BIBLE

BY RYAN HICKS

 

Many people in the name of "kindness" are saying that a Christian cannot bear arms. They believe that bearing arms for self-defense is unbiblical and that Christ taught passivism. They will use verses that relate to religious persecution like Matthew 5:39 which says, "But I [Jesus] say unto you, That ye resist not evil: but whosoever shall smite thee on thy right cheek, turn to him the other also." They also use Peter's cutting off Malchus' ear and Jesus' rebuke of Peter for trying to live by the sword (John 18:10-11) as a reason not to bear arms and defend self, family, and friends.

 

If there was a place in the New Testament where Jesus commanded the purchasing of a weapon then it alone would destroy the theory of wimpy "Christians" that are too cowardly to defend self, family, and friends and twist Scriptures to defend their cowardice (Cp. Revelation 21:8). There is a place where Jesus commands the purchasing of a weapon, not to further the religion like Roman Catholicism does, but for defense.

 

Luke 22:36-38

36   Then said he unto them, But now, he that hath a purse, let him take it, and likewise his scrip: and he that hath no sword, let him sell his garment, and buy one.

37   For I say unto you, that this that is written must yet be accomplished in me, And he was reckoned among the transgressors: for the things concerning me have an end.

38   And they said, Lord, behold, here are two swords. And he said unto them, It is enough.

 

Jesus told His disciples to buy swords BEFORE He rebuked Peter for cutting off the servants ear. They said they had two swords, and Jesus approved of this as being enough to defend themselves. He did not rebuke Peter for the possessing of a weapon for self-defense or the defense of others in need, but because Peter was trying to stop what God had ordained, namely His going to the cross. That is why Jesus rebuked Peter.

 

John 18:3-11

3 Judas then, having received a band of men and officers from the chief priests and Pharisees, cometh thither with lanterns and torches and weapons.

4 Jesus therefore, knowing all things that should come upon him, went forth, and said unto them, Whom seek ye?

5 They answered him, Jesus of Nazareth. Jesus saith unto them, I am he. And Judas also, which betrayed him, stood with them.

6 As soon then as he had said unto them, I am he, they went backward, and fell to the ground.

7 Then asked he them again, Whom seek ye? And they said, Jesus of Nazareth.

8 Jesus answered, I have told you that I am he: if therefore ye seek me, let these go their way:

9 That the saying might be fulfilled, which he spake, Of them which thou gavest me have I lost none.

10 Then Simon Peter having a sword drew it, and smote the high priest's servant, and cut off his right ear. The servant's name was Malchus.

11 Then said Jesus unto Peter, Put up thy sword into the sheath: the cup which my Father hath given me, shall I not drink it?


Clearly Jesus did not rebuke Peter's care for Him and defending Him, rather He rebuked Peter because Peter was trying to stop Jesus from being taken to die and drinking the cup which the Father had given Him. This was not the first time Jesus had to rebuke Peter for trying to stop Jesus from drinking the cup which the Father gave Him (Matthew 16:21-23).

 

Thus, the plain reading of the Scripture's account of Peter cutting of the man's ear and Jesus rebuking him has nothing at all to do with forbidding self-defense or the defense of others, nor does it forbid the possessing of weapons.

 

The other main argument used by people who are too cowardly to defend themselves and others (which is mighty ungodly) is Matthew 5:39 which reads:

 

     Matthew 5:39

     But I [Jesus] say unto you, That ye resist not evil: but whosoever shall smite thee on thy right  cheek, turn to him the other also.

 

The first thing that needs to be pointed out is that what Jesus explains for us to do is not a life or death situation. Also, this mainly has to do with persecution for His name's sake, which we are to be faithful witnesses even unto death.

 

Other verses in the New Testament like Matthew 5:39 are:

 

Romans 12:19

Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written,Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord.

 

Hebrews 10:30

For we know him that hath said, Vengeance belongeth unto me, I will recompense, saith the Lord. And again, The Lord shall judge his people.

 

1 Peter 3:9

Not rendering evil for evil, or railing for railing: but contrariwise blessing; knowing that ye are thereunto called, that ye should inherit a blessing.

 

These verses obviously are not referring to not defending yourself in life and death matters, but rather everyday matters let the Lord avenge. When it comes to life and death that is what we have the sword or other weapons that Jesus commanded His disciples to buy.

 

There are many times in the Old Testament where not seeking vengeance is mentioned. A few verses are:

 

Proverbs 20:22

Say not thou, I will recompense evil; but wait on the LORD, and he shall save thee.

 

Deuteronomy 32:35

To me [the LORD] belongeth vengeance, and recompence; their foot shall slide in due time: for the day of their calamity is at hand, and the things that shall come upon them make haste.

 

You may claim that if we are not to avenge ourselves then we surely cannot defend ourselves even in life and death situations, but compare how you would make David's statements contradictory with that logic. Take his statements below.

 

Psalms 94:1

O LORD God, to whom vengeance belongeth; O God, to whom vengeance belongeth, shew thyself.

 

Psalms 18:32-34

32 It is God that girdeth me with strength, and maketh my way perfect.

33 He maketh my feet like hinds' feet, and setteth me upon my high places.

34 He teacheth my hands to war, so that a bow of steel is broken by mine arms.

 

Psalms 144:1

Blessed be the LORD my strength, which teacheth my hands to war, and my fingers to fight:

 

While the Presbyterian view of predestination is unbiblical and false, I think that the following story about a Presbyterian minister makes a good point.

 

A Presbyterian minister rode into town on horseback. He was met by a group of ministers who noticed his gun on his side. They said, "I thought you believed in predestination?" The minister answered, "Yes, I do." So the group asked, "Well, why do you carry that gun then?" The minister looked at them and said, "Well, because it may just be that some thief tries to rob me, and that may be the day God predestined him to die."

 

The point to be taken from this is that God may use you to administer vengeance. Take for example after Aaron had helped make the golden calf the Bible says,

 

Exodus 32:26-28

26   Then Moses stood in the gate of the camp, and said, Who is on the LORD'S side? let him come unto me. And all the sons of Levi gathered themselves together unto him.

27   And he said unto them, Thus saith the LORD God of Israel, Put every man his sword by his side, and go in and out from gate to gate throughout the camp, and slay every man his brother, and every man his companion, and every man his neighbour.

28   And the children of Levi did according to the word of Moses: and there fell of the people that day about three thousand men.

 

The vengeance of killing the wicked was the Lord's, but He used men to administer that vengeance. We are given the charge of administering vengeance when our lives are at stake or the lives of others.

 

Moses is a good example of someone defending another and not being rebuked for it.

 

Exodus 2:11-12

11   And it came to pass in those days, when Moses was grown, that he went out unto his brethren, and looked on their burdens: and he spied an Egyptian smiting an Hebrew, one of his brethren.

12   And he looked this way and that way, and when he saw that there was no man, he slew the Egyptian, and hid him in the sand.

 

Rather than run away like many of these pretend Christians that are against self-defense and bearing arms, Moses did the godly thing and defended one of his brethren. Stephen, under the inspiration of the Holy Spirit, spoke of Moses' defending the defenseless and said,

 

Acts 7:23-25

23 And when he was full forty years old, it came into his heart to visit his brethren the children of Israel.

24 And seeing one of them suffer wrong, he defended him, and avenged him that was oppressed, and smote the Egyptian:

25 For he supposed his brethren would have understood how that God by his hand would deliver them: but they understood not.

 

This is the New Testament account of this event and it was praised, not condemned. God joys in His children defending the defenseless rather than pretending to be righteous by twisting the Scriptures into a veil for their cowardice.

 

Defending one, even unto death, is not something to be taken lightly, but prayerfully and wisely. Killing should be the very

last thing we want to do, but we also should not shrink and be cowardly when the time comes to defends ourselves and/or

others.---end---

 

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RETORICAL QUESTIONS:  Based on your reasoning what if someone came to your house and asked to rape the women in your family.  Would to "turn the other cheek" and escort the evil people to the bedroom?

 

If you knew there were thieves in your town and that they were stealing from homes in your neighborhood, would you open all your doors and put your money and valuables out in front of the house for the thieves or would it be okay for a person to lock the door and put the money in a safe?

 

If you came home one day and a man had just broken into your house and was about to rape your two year old sister, would you just go about your business, sit at your computer and answer your e-mail or would you defend the two year old.  How would you prevent him from going ahead with the rape?

 

If someone called you on the phone and stated to you that they were coming to your house within the hour to kill you and your family with a gun, what would you do?

 

In answering these questions, I would ask that specific scriptures be given to support the answers given.

 

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Here is another statement which we agree with that speaks directly to Matthew 5:

 

The Bible and Self-Defense

 

     It may not be the Canadian way, but according to the Bible, it is legitimate to use force, even life- taking force, in

     self-defense. Exodus 22:2-3 says: "If the thief is caught while breaking in, and is struck so that he dies, there will be

     no bloodguiltiness on his account. But if the sun has risen on him, there will be bloodguiltiness on his account...."

     The principle behind this Biblical law is, according to many commentators, that life-taking force may be used by a

     person when, and only when, lives are being threatened. This is shown by the law's distinction between night and

     day. Since the person threatened at night cannot appraise the threat posed by the intruder, he may justifiably

     assume the worst - that he is dealing with a threat to the lives of those present. If, however, the invasion takes place

     during the day, the person is not justified in taking life, because life-taking force may not be used against what is

     verifiably a thief, who threatens only property. In other words, killing to protect property is wrong and a crime. The

     only time a private individual may take the life of another is in order to defend the lives for which he is responsible.

 

     While this Old Testament law may justify self-defense, many Christians believe that Christ teaches us a "more

     spiritual" way in the Sermon on the Mount : "You have heard that it was said, An eye for an eye, and a tooth for a

     tooth. But I say to you, do not resist him who is evil; but whoever slaps you on your right cheek, turn to him the

     other also (Matthew 5:38-39)."

 

     The Sermon on the Mount is often interpreted as Christ drawing a series of contrasts between the Old Testament

     law and His own "new" teaching. But it is significant that Christ introduces each of His contrasts with the phrase:

     "You have heard it was said..." rather than "It is written...." He is not contrasting God's Old Testament law ("It is

     written") with His own teaching (as if God's moral character reflected in His law had changed between the

     Testaments): rather He is showing the stark contrast between the Rabbinical interpretation of the law ("You have

     heard it was said"), and the true heart-felt obedience to the commands which God desires.

 

     The Old Testament law, "An eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth" is found in several places in the law (Exod

     21:24,25; Lev 24:20; and Deut 19:21). It is an idiom: that is, a non-literal phrase which encapsulates a truth - in this

     case the legal truth that the punishment must fit the crime. Regardless of someone's desire for vengeance, God's law

     limits the severity of the punishment: it must not exceed the severity of the damage done. Does this law justify

     personal vengeance? No. Read in context, the law is clearly not addressing individuals but rather instructs civil

     judges in their administration of courts of law: "and he shall pay as the judges decide" (Exod 21:22). And, as the

     subsequent verses in Exodus 21 go on to clarify, this was not to be a literal knocking out of teeth or gouging of

     eyes, but rather a reminder to judges to punish fairly and proportionately. (An exception is the rule: "a life for a life"

     which is to be applied literally - see verse 29, for example.)

 

     This law of proportional punishment was actually meant to prevent personal vengeance, by specifying that the

     penalty for crimes must be exacted only by the civil authority, and be no more severe than warranted by the crime.

     Christ was not renouncing the Old Testament standard of judgment in His statement, but issuing a stiff rebuke to

     the religious teachers of His day who had twisted this law and applied it to personal slights in order to justify their

     own vindictive desires.

 

     But when Christ goes on to say: "do not resist him who is evil; but whoever slaps you on your right cheek, turn to

     him the other also," is he laying down a "new" New Testament ethic of non- resistance? It is the Old Testament

     which says, in Leviticus 19:18, "You shall surely not take vengeance, nor bear any grudge against the sons of your

     people, but you shall love your neighbor as yourself," and Proverbs 25:21 tells us, "If your enemy is hungry, give

     him food to eat; And if he is thirsty, give him water to drink." Personal vengeance is forbidden - in both Testaments.

 

     What then, is the meaning of Christ's exhortation? If it is to be taken literally, Christ himself (in John 18:23) and the

     Apostle Paul (in Acts 23:3) both failed to live up to it. In the context of the Sermon on the Mount it seems clear

     that Christ is addressing the heart attitude of a person towards those who mistreat him, rather than making a

     categorical statement about all use of physical force. As Robert Culver writes in his book, The Peace-Mongers:

     "such precepts of Jesus should be related to the heart ... rather than to external procedures. We must always act in

     the spirit of Christian meekness, grace, and kindness: 'As much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men' (Rom

     12:18). This means we should have regard for the true good of people rather than simply to give them what they

     say they need or to yield to their every demand. Blind submission was not what Jesus had in mind...." Christ's

     teaching rules out any and every self-centred use of force, but it does not address the non-selfish use of force for

     the defense of human lives. ---end---

 

Here is another statement I found on the Internet which we agree with:

 

Jesus' complete statement is "If someone strikes you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also." Of course, any striking is a painful blow, but the striking in this case is meant as a gross insult (cf. 2 Corinthians 11:20). If a right-handed person strikes someone's right cheek, presumably it is a slap by the back of the hand rather than the fist. In the eastern culture this is considered an insult of the highest order. But Jesus says that His disciples should gladly be willing to endure the insult again.

 

This passage has nothing to do with self-defense. Christians are permitted to defend themselves and their families (Exodus 22:2;

Numbers 1:2-3; Ecclesiastes 4:12; Luke 22:36; Acts 22:1; 25:10-11; 2 Timothy 4:16) and to use God-ordained authority to keep evil from harming them or others (Proverbs 28:8; Acts 16:37-39; 22:23-29). What is forbidden is the taking of vengeance (Romans 12:17-21), bitterness (Ephesians 4:31), and retaliation (1 Peter 2:23). These are absolutely forbidden by Jesus and the apostles.

 

Notice the commentary:

 

Matthew 5:39

But I say unto you, That ye resist not evil: but whosoever shall smite thee on thy right cheek, turn to him the other also.

 

But I say unto you, That ye resist not evil; but whosoever shall smite thee on thy right cheek, turn to him the other also. Our Lord's own meek, yet dignified bearing, when smitten rudely on the cheek (John 18:22-23), and not literally presenting the other, is the best comment on these words. It is the preparedness, after one indignity, not to invite but to submit meekly to another, without retaliation, which this strong language is meant to convey.  ~from Jamieson, Fausset, and Brown Commentary

 
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